Starting to Feel It

Things are great, the semester is winding up, but man I sure am glad it's almost over. It feels a little ungrateful to complain - I mean, I'm so lucky that I'm able to go to grad school.  But I basically took too many classes. And the delay starting clinical just compressed everything starting in October into this miserable so-busy-all-day-long Monday thru Friday gig. Like I said, I couldn't even schedule a haircut in the the month of October or November. (Actually, I just got that done today, after I had my first final exam. Yes, I can finally breathe.) I'm working as a therapist on my own now at one of my clinical sites and finding my way as a new clinician. It's exciting and humbling, and I don't take it for granted. As I told someone recently, I have a proper sense of terror when I close the door and it's just me and my client, looking at each other. It's one of the hardest things I've ever done, I can say that. As Ken says, it's a puzzle. People tell you what's on their mind, but you have to figure out so much more - like, what do they not fully realize about themselves? What are they hiding from themselves (and trying to, from you)? What formative event have they left out that needs to be discussed? In the last - I don't know, maybe 20 years - the psychiatric community has found proof that many of our disorders are rooted in genetics and neurochemical/structural makeup - it's not all "bad parenting", although that is a factor. And how do you assess that? It's not like I can do a head CT in the office, and the differences at this point are rather subtle. Diagnosis is hard work - makes me appreciate the TV show House all the more. For instance, one of my therapy clients came to me with a very specific diagnosis in mind. And it took her almost the full session to reveal this. She has a set of expectations now around this, and we have to discover this territory together. But I certainly can't dismiss her ideas - even if I flatly disagreed (which I don't). Because she is the expert on her own inner life. I'm just someone who's a trained guide. Hope it's worth the money (ha).

I have realized that I certainly don't want to work at the state hospital on the kids' unit. I like the vast majority of the patients - but the subset of kids that don't really belong there (those with severe conduct disorders that basically disrupt the environment completely) have ruined it for me. This facility is not the place for them, but unfortunately placement is such a problem in Texas that they end up there anyway. And I can't be a part of that. The other kids - those with treatable psychiatric illnesses - I really liked them. I look forward to working with kids in the community that need help. (And yes, I know that theoretically Conduct Disorder is treatable but not at ASH. We are not staffed or trained to treat that.)

I've managed to work some fun into the semester. Ken and I saw Duncan Sheik perform at the Paramount and it was such a treat. I've been a huge fan since 1993, with his big #1 hit Barely Breathing (which he did a smooth-jazz version of as an encore), but it was nice to introduce Ken to him. Duncan was so funny and generous and just what you want a singer/songwriter to be for you, up on that stage. He sure has a wicked self-deprecating wit. I love how he said to introduce one song "Have you ever noticed how every sensual....seductive....arousing....hot....(this went on for a while)...thing is better in the anticipation?" Anyway, it was funny. I obviously am not as good a raconteur as he is! And he sang my favorite song (Wishful Thinking).

Let's see....what else happened....AIDS Walk Austin was fun. Beautiful day, good cause. My biggest baby had to evacuate for the hurricane in NYC. Is that weird or what? We live in Louisiana (yes, we survived Katrina) for 20-odd years, and Dani goes to New York and is hit with a hurricane. We flew her home the day before it hit, and it's a good thing because it was a nightmare. We had to send her back after a week because classes resumed at NYU but she went back to a freezing cold dorm with no heat or hot water. Luckily, late the next day it was fixed but we were a little frantic. She spent a really shivery night.

The diagnostic bible of psychiatry (DSM-5) has been updated and it's quite controversial. We've been talking about it in class all semester. I didn't realize that I was getting involved in a profession that has such controversy surrounding it, but I am. The public is questioning pathologizing that may be going on - is hoarding really a psychiatric disease in its own right, or just a case of OCD? Is severe bereavement the same as clinical depression? Are kids over-diagnosed with bipolar disorder (yes)? Are the drug companies in bed with mental health providers, seeking to smooth over every bump in the road with a pill? One of the things I like about working now as "only" a therapist, before I graduate and have prescriptive authority, is that I'm forced to treat patients without turning quickly to drugs. My personal belief is that drugs are needed in some cases, but are probably over-prescribed in general. My goal is to not be in that camp. The other part about prescribing is do it right. I've already seen several patients that were prescribed a low starting dose of anti-depressant by their family doctor, and followup wasn't really done. They are still on that dose, and not feeling better after months. The doc wrote a quick prescription without a thorough psychiatric exam (maybe as part of their standard 15-minute office visit), and didn't titrate the dose. If you need psychiatric care, you need to see someone fully qualified in that arena, or expect sub-standard results. Just my biased opinion, folks.

And another biased opinion is something that I've changed recently. As a result of my experiences on the kids' psych unit, I no longer support legalizing marijuana. I can't tell you how many kids I've seen that think that's the answer to all their problems, but what is does is just suck all the motivation out of their brain. I have no problem with adults smoking a little here & there, but its effects on the developing brain are scientifically documented as terrible. And yes, I know that if it's legal, then you have to be 21, but how many of you drank alcohol before it was legal? Yeah - all of you. Me too. And the other thing is the brain is still in a high state of development until about age 25 or 26. I've always supported legalization, but I have changed my mind. I think society has to protect these vulnerable teenagers that choose this horrible thing that frankly, puts them in a fog and robs them of a future. The other thing is that I read the cartels don't really grow marijuana any more because the in-state cultivators have basically taken over the market. Ever watch Weeds on Showtime? So that's not a good reason any more to make it legal.

This last pic is just two cute kittens from the shelter. Don't you just want to kiss that little pink nose? We are still consumed with kittens there. It's been the worst year ever. If anyone out there wants a kitten, please please please visit the Austin Animal Center. Open every day from 11-7. http://austintexas.gov/department/animal-services